“I can’t help you if you won’t help yourself.” 17. “I really empathise, looking through your bloodshot eyes,” she sings. Help Yourself (2003)įor all the breeziness of the music – live-sounding drums and guitar, pretty woodwind – time has lent a grim irony to the lyrics of Help Yourself, which reflects more kindly on the same relationship that inspired Stronger Than Me. Photograph: Gianfranco Calcagno/FilmMagic 18.